The reason that many long term relationships fail is the result of routines. Many long term relationships come to an end, even after the couple has been together for decades, because of boredom. People are realizing in this day and age that life is too short not to be happy in their lives and will move on if things get uninteresting.
A few making love tips
It is so important to keep things fun and exciting in the bedroom, so we must always be at the top of our game and be on the lookout for new and exciting things to add into the mix. I understand how busy peoples lives are, with work stress, children etc. But who ever said maintaining a good relationship was easy? Relationships are just like anything else in life, you must work at it to improve.
Wearing sexy lingerie and lighting candles is so yesterday, now don’t get me wrong those things still work in some situations but today’s crowd is looking for new and exciting things. This is where sex games come into play. Trying out some sex games will turn the heat back up in the bedroom.
How about adding a little kinkiness to your sex life with some voyeurism. Take turns watching each other masturbate, or better yet, both of you masturbate while watching each other. We all have voyeuristic sides and watching each other might just tap into a sexual side that you didn’t know you had.
An ordinary deck of playing cards can be a great tool for some sex games, assign a sexual task for each card and then lay them face down. Take turns turning a card over and then doing what you previously assigned to that card. For example, Ace equals oral sex, King equals doggy style, Queen equals masturbation, etc. Use your imagination and have fun.
I recommend role playing to a lot of my clients, you can take it as far as you want using props and costumes. Some good role playing suggestions are the prison guard/inmate role play. Teacher/student role play, Pirate/wench role play. If you really want to get adventurous, take your role playing in public and pick your girl up in a bar as if you were strangers that just met.
Many people don’t even think that sexual stimulation and gratification can occur without genital involvement. But did you know that the most powerful sex organ is the mind. Try increasing your sensual (touch, taste, sight, smell, and hearing) sensitivity By working on your partners mind. Normal sex is often a short circuit of sensual pleasure for women. Ninety percent of a woman’s pleasure comes from making love, not the act of intercourse. I’m not implying that they don’t enjoy it. I’m just saying some women, and most men, are missing out on about ninety percent of what they could be experiencing. The secret is stimulating yourself first through fantasy! Thoughts are tremendously powerful! They seem real and feel real ! And remember, your brain doesn’t know the difference between reality and fantasy. Try out some of the role playing suggestions from above to stimulate the mind, it can work wonder in your making love sessions.
These are just a few making love tips and idea’s to add some fun and excitement to your relationship, the key is to have fun with it and get involved. Don’t laugh during the games or it might ruin the mood for the other, and most of all don’t be afraid to experiment.
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